Please help me!
Q. There is this guy that I work with and I have had feelings for him for about three months. Then I became friends with a new girl that just started working there. I never told her about my feelings for this guy. Now I find out that her and this guy are going out. Though I didn't tell her, somehow I feel she has betrayed me. Should I tell her the truth about my feelings or just try and forget about them?
Kellie, via e-mail.
Hugh says:
You should definitely not tell her! You haven't known her for a very long time and you didn't even tell her in the beginning that you had a crush on him — what would telling her now do now that he's her boyfriend? If you told her you'd make things more confused and lose a couple of friends in the process.
