Please help me!
Q. One of my best friends, Zach, is an absolute flirt and I've been watching him for a few months now and he always seems to be flirting with me rather than any other girl around. I have just come out of a relationship so I don't really want another bf for a while and I know for a fact that he isn't a girlfriend kind of guy, but I really, really like him.
I've tried talking myself out of it but it doesn't work! One of his other girl mates told him she likes him and he said no! She's a gorgeous girl, they get along so well and he said no! I was there when it happened and it seemed that he kept looking at me. This past week I have become one of his best mates and I just like him more and more! Help! What should I do?
Lily, via e-mail.
Ranga says:
I'm a bit confused! You say you have just come out of a relationship and don't want another bf for a while, so why not just enjoy being Zac's good friend and let things happen naturally? When you are ready for another bf, talk to him and find out if he feels the same way.