Please help me!
Q. I'm in love with this guy who says he loves me too. The thing is we live in different states so it's a bit hard to do anything about it. We're supposed to meet up in a couple of months' time and during then he says he might hook up with someone every now and again to pass the time until we see each other. I'm really confused. If he's going to be hooking up does this mean he's not interested in me? What should I do?
Donna, via e-mail.
Callum says:
This guy's a loser. If he tells you he loves you and then plans to go off and hook up to pass the time, then that's pretty dodgy in the first place. He's probably trying to make himself out to be some kind of player, but the fact that he actually told you this tells me that he's blatantly not. Let this guy go, the fact that you guys live in other states will make it hard enough, but with the addition that you know he's gonna be off with other girls (or at least is going to try, probably unsuccessfully) it will just make it harder on you and is gonna waste your time while you could be finding a better guy closer to home. No guy tells a girl he likes that he's gonna hook up with other chicks to "pass the time". This guy is a joke.
